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Just some information about me. I'm a wife, board certified integrative health counselor, and amateur ballroom dancer. I enjoy life by living each day like it is my last. One of my favorite hobbies is to travel, travel, travel, and to learn different cultures of all kinds. After a recent lay off..I realized my passion and purpose in life is to inspire people by showing them how to enjoy their life and to pamper all aspects of it. This includes your health, your wealth, and most important your mind by making the connection to what living is really about. Pampering4life is about making small changes and reaping BIG RESULTS! I look forward to opening up a new world for you so you to can live your BEST LIFE

Monday, October 31, 2011

Breast Cancer Awareness Month: Your Healthy Breast

Keeping Your Breast Healthy
There is no natural way to change your breast size, but during pregnancy or puberty. Therefore, you have to be careful to take pill or capsule to enlarge the size of your breast. The following tips are to maintain your breast.
1. If you want to take that pill, you have to know that that pill contains estrogen without the doctor's license. The excessive of estrogen can cause breast cancer.
2. Breast consists of mammary gland and fat that contains collagen. As you grow older, the collagen is getting thin. It means that its skin is no longer tight. To overcome this, you can use bra since in the early age. To keep your breast in good shape, you can do aerobic, jogging, or tennis. Use the suitable bra for that activity, sport bra. It can back your breast up.
3. Hormonal change that happens in your body can change your breast skin texture. Your tissue in this part will be so soft for several days after menstruation. On the other hand, before menstruation, you breast will be a little bigger. For you to know, not all women have exactly the same size of chests. One chest may bigger than another. But, it is normal.
4. Do a regular treatment for your breasts. It is useful for its beauty and for detecting any abnormality that may come. Be aware of black fly, painful, bolter that may come to your breasts.
5. The dent of your breasts is usually hotter than the surrounding area. If you want your perfume to be more powerful, spray it on that area. The temperature of this area will make your perfume evaporate fast. Keep your weight stable. The drastic changing of your weight can make the back up your breast weak.
6. You can keep your chest in a good shape by doing exercises. Choose exercises that focus on the chest muscle like swimming. A good shape of your body, upright shoulder, can also help its back up work. Be careful in using moisturizer because your breast is sensitive. Do not use moisturizer around its nipple.
Another method that can be applied to keep your breasts healthy is by doing breast massage. This method is believed to be able to strengthen up and enlarge the size of your breast.
Steps for doing breast massage.
There are four procedures of massage that you can do at your house intensively. This massage is aimed to stimulate the shape of your breasts to be better or attractive.
1. Gentle draining motion.
Set your four fingers close together, and your thump apart so that it shapes like L. Put your L right hand under your breast, and your L left hand right on your nipple. Make a movement of your left hand down repeatedly. Make a gentle and smooth movement. Do this massage for 3-5 minutes for each breast.
2. Kneading-like motion
In the same shape hand, put your fingers of each hand under and above your breast, meanwhile, both of your thumps on your breasts. Then press your breast. Do it within 3-5 minutes.
3. Clock motion
Put your hands in the same position with kneading-like motion. Turn your hands clockwise and vice versa. Do not do this too much. You have to do this slowly and carefully. Do this for 3-5 minutes for each.
4. Pressure motion
In the L shape of hand, put your right hand at your right breast and your left hand at your left breast with both of the thumps on top of your breasts. Press your thumps against your breasts and hold for several seconds. Do this repeatedly for 3-5 minutes for each.
To get the maximum result, use cream for your breasts. Use B-shape breast firming cream which contains Glycine and wheat germ oil. It can stimulate your breast to fix the texture of your breast naturally

Monday, October 24, 2011

Breast Cancer Awareness Month: Healthy Eating Recipe

Mixed Green Salad with Pears, Hazelnuts, Blue Cheese and Homemade Croutons


 

Serves 6

Sweet, juicy pears partner with tangy blue cheese in this delightful cold-weather salad, full of flavor and texture. Homemade croutons and toasted hazelnuts give it lots of crunch. To make this salad ahead of time, prepare all ingredients separately and toss together just before serving.

Ingredients

1/2 cup hazelnuts
1/2 baguette, cut into 3/4-inch cubes
3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil, divided
1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
1 tablespoon white wine vinegar
1/4 teaspoon sea salt
1/8 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
1 (5-ounce) package mixed baby greens (about 3 cups)
2 Bartlett pears, cored and cut into thin wedges
1/2 cup crumbled blue cheese, such as Stilton or Rogue River Blue cheese

Method

Preheat oven to 375°F. Spread hazelnuts on a rimmed baking sheet and toast until lightly golden, 10 to 12 minutes. Wrap nuts in a clean dish towel and rub together to remove skins. Set aside until cool enough to handle, and then chop nuts. To make croutons, toss bread cubes with 1 tablespoon olive oil and place on a baking sheet. Toast until golden, 10 to 12 minutes.

Meanwhile, whisk together mustard, vinegar, salt and pepper in a large bowl. Add remaining 2 tablespoons olive oil in a thin steady stream, whisking constantly until combined. Add greens, pears, blue cheese and hazelnuts and toss until evenly coated. Toss in the croutons and serve immediately.

Nutrition

Per serving: 270 calories (150 from fat), 17g total fat, 4.5g saturated fat, 10mg cholesterol, 400mg sodium, 23g total carbohydrate (4g dietary fiber, 6g sugar), 7g protein

Monday, October 17, 2011

Eating Healthy To Prevent Breast Cancer

The truth is, we are miles away from any guaranteed protection against
breast cancer. But, at this point, we can look at improving our odds by including (and avoiding) certain foods and nutrients in our diet. The groundbreaking report from the American Institute of Cancer Research (Food, Nutrition, and the Prevention of Cancer: a global perspective, 1997) noted which foods, based on research results thus far, probably or possibly decreased breast cancer risk and which foods/components probably or possibly increased risk. You'll find many of their conclusions in the 10 Steps below.






Things You Will Need


  • Fruits
  • Vegetables
  • Carotenoid-rich food
  • Fiber
  • Monounsaturated fats

    • 1
      Enjoy more fruits. They contribute powerful antioxidants, phytochemicals, and fiber.
    • 2
      Enjoy more vegetables. They contribute other powerful antioxidants, phytochemicals and they also contribute fiber.
    • 3
      Work a Carotenoid-rich food into your day (cantaloupe, mango, beet greens, butternut squash, chili peppers, dandelion greens, dock/sorrel greens, hubbard squash, kale, mustard greens, pumpkin, spinach, sweet potato, swiis chard, turnip greens, winter squash, and yams).
    • 4
      Eat more fiber, especially from whole grains. Phytochemicals found in whole grains have been found to reduce risk of breast and colon cancers in animal studies.
    • 5
      Keep fat, saturated fat, and animal fat moderate. Researchers are still trying to figure out if and how the amount of fat (as well as the types of fat) in our food changes our risk for breast cancer. Results from animal studies have suggested the possibility that the amount and type of fat we eat could encourage or discourage certain breast tumors.
    • 6
      Switch to monounsaturated fats. Research has been showing that monounsaturated oils, such as olive and canola oil, do not have many cancer-promoting effects (Journal of the American Dietetic Association, 97:16, 1997).
    • 7
      Drink little or no alcohol. At least 50 studies show that alcohol may play a role in breast cancer risk.
    • 8
      Emphasize variety in food choices. Eating various foods will give many different nutrients and helpful phytochemicals.
    • 9
      Try to keep extra weight off as you age. A Harvard University study showed that women who gained 44 to 55 pounds after age 18 had almost double the risk of developing breast cancer following menopause, compared with women who had gained only a few pounds.
    • 10
      Get bitten by the fitness bug! (or)
    • 11
      Try to exercise at least 4 hours a week--even if it is just walking. Some studies have found a reduced risk of breast cancer among women who exercise regularly or who were athletic as adolescents.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Breast Cancer Awareness Month: Living Stress Free

Stress hormones are just as bad as smoking cigarettes daily when it comes to your body. As women we need to learn how to live more stress free to help prevent any onset of stress hormones which can lead to a weaken immune system which can now lead to breast cancer.
People who are stressed are less productive at work and their social life suffers. We have all been brainwashed to
believe that stress is a daily part of our lives and there is no way to stop stress. That ain't necessarily so.


  Here are stress management tips to reduce stress and live a more productive stress free life.

    • 1
      Get Fit! Take care of your health and you will be able to deal with stress. Get proper amount of sleep, exercise, and watch your weight.
    • 2
      Don't Worry Be Happy. Don't think about what could happen tomorrow or what happened yesterday. This places additional stress on the body and mind. Live fully in the moment.
    • 3
      Volunteer. People who actively help others have very little time to stress over their own problems. Get involved with local charity groups or a neighborhood organization.
    • 4
      De-Clutter. Clean out the clutter in your home, bounce a bad relationship that adds stress. Reduce social activities or work related overload. De-clutter to de-stress.
    • 5
      Humor. Laugh out-loud at your problems. See the funny in all of life's situations. A laugh a day will keep the stress away.
    • 6
      Don't Bully People. Everyone doesn't have to do as you do or even do as you say. You are not the boss of the universe. Many stressed out people are type "A" personalities who are driven. And control freaks. Let go.
    • 7
      Anger Management. Don't get mad. Smile. When rude, gruff, nasty people get under your skin act kindly and smile. A smile will kill any anger and reduce stressful situations.
    • 8
      Think Positive. Stop listening to negative voices in your head. Every time a negative thought enters the mind...think STOP! Then replace it with a positive thought. Mastering a positive attitude is often hard and it will take some time. But give it a try.
    • 9
      Names. See problems as opportunities to learn. Giving a different name to a situation will ease stress and tension.
    • 10
      Don't Play the Blame Game. Don't blame stress on others. Your mind controls what you say and think and do. Choose to face stress in a calm and controlled manner. Take a deep breath...Now wasn't that much better.
      Soon you will feel stress relief and live a stress free life.



Monday, October 3, 2011

Healthy Tips For Breast Cancer Awareness: Think Pink

Research continues to identify foods and methods of preparation linked to increased risks of cancer. As consumers grow more health conscious, they may wonder which foods to avoid. Living a healthy lifestyle by eating the right foods can greatly reduce your risk of getting breast cancer. Below are some healthy tips you can follow daily to regain your health and for your preventive care.







 

  1. Grilled Foods

    • Foods cooked at high temperatures, such as grilled or fried meats and vegetables, develop acrymalides, a chemical known to cause cancer in rats. Industrial plants use acrymalides to produce various plastics. PhIP, a type of acrymalide, possesses certain estrogen-like properties which may worsen a patient's breast cancer.

    Aspartame

    • The human body produces various byproducts when breaking down aspartame. Among these byproducts is methanol, which the body further reduces to formaldehyde, a known carcinogen. Scientists and researchers continue to study this possible risk.

    Red Meat


    • A recent study revealed men and women over the age of 50 who consumed beef, pork or lamb on a daily basis were 30 percent more likely to die from cancer. Eating large quantities of red meat cooked at high temperatures increases the likelihood that DNA-damaging chemicals will be introduced to the body. Red meat consumption may affect tumor growth rates.

    Processed Meats


    • Nitrosamines and other chemicals in processed meats, such as hot dogs and deli items, may increase the risk of cancer. University of Hawaii researchers discovered a link between people who consumed large amounts of processed meats and their risk of developing pancreatic cancer.

Balancing a healthy lifestyle with healthy choices is key in all cancer prevention. According to the American Cancer Society, a woman in the United States is diagnosed with breast cancer every three minutes. There are many things you can do to prevent yourself from becoming a statistic.
Lifestyle factors such as regular exercise, increasing vitamin D intake, and eating a low-fat diet can help reduce your risk of getting breast cancer. All the prevention methods listed here can all help you live a well-balanced life - one full of energy and vitality:
Alkalize your blood. A healthy pH balance - the ratio of alkalinity to acidity in the body - is crucial to being cancer-free. Cancer thrives in acidic environments but is unable to survive in alkaline ones. Edgar Cayce, typically referred to as the "father of holistic medicine," consistently emphasized the importance of maintaining a proper acid/alkaline balance in the body. Cayce said that "a normal diet is about twenty percent acid to eighty percent alkaline-producing." Make sure your diet is rich in alkalizing foods such as green vegetables, beans, spices, herbs, seeds and nuts. Limit your consumption of alcohol, coffee, meat, fish, poultry and eggs. You can measure your pH levels with litmus strips to be sure your body is more alkaline than acidic.
Go braless! Or at least limit how many hours a day you wear a bra. Bras restrict the flow of lymph within breast tissue which hinders the breast's natural cleansing process. Multiple studies done on bras have shown some astounding results. Women in Figi who don't wear bras have almost no incidence of breast cancer. In a Harvard study researchers found that women who wore their bras 24 hours per day had a 3 out of 4 chance of developing breast cancer compared to women who wore their bras less than 12 hours per day and had a 1 out of 152 risk.
Eat your veggies. Cruciferous vegetables such as cabbage and broccoli may protect against breast cancer because they lower levels of estrogen which is a hormone that plays a role in tumor growth. Additionally isothiocyanates- the anti-cancer compounds found in broccoli- can help in the detoxification of your liver and can rid your body of carcinogens.
Get some sun! Vitamin D is a hormone that your body naturally produces when your skin is exposed to sunlight. Vitamin D is essential to your body but as many as 36% of us are deficient in Vitamin D. According to Science Daily, Vitamin D protects us from breast cancer by stimulating a protein that prevents breast cancer cells from growing. Fair-skinned individuals need just 15 minutes of sun a day while 20 to 30 minutes is needed for darker skinned people. In the winter months make sure to get your Vitamin D from fish oil, mushrooms and Vitamin D supplements.
Get regular exercise: The Arnold School of Public Health at the University of South Carolina has done multiple studies showing that moderate exercise can reduce the risk of breast cancer. Exercising promotes the circulation of oxygen in the blood and floods cells with enough oxygen to get rid of cancer. Cancer cannot survive in an oxygen-rich environment. Try to exercise for at least 30 minutes 5-6 times a week.
Drink green tea. According to a study published in The Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry the EGCG in green tea aids in preventing breast cancer. The polyphenols-powerful antioxidants found in green tea- can prevent cancer cells from growing. Drink 1-3 cups of caffeine-free green tea per day.
Eat a low-fat diet. A diet high in fat significantly increases a woman's risk of developing breast cancer. A study published in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute concluded that women with high-fat diets had a 32 percent higher risk of getting breast cancer than those who followed a low-fat diet.
Try Black Cohosh. This is an herb used typically to treat the side effects associated with menopause. A recent study showed that extracts from Black Cohosh may stop breast cancer cells from forming.
The true cause of cancer can depend on a number of factors. Diet, environmental factors, and genetics all play a role. By making healthy lifestyle choices you can dramatically tip the odds in your favor and enjoy a vibrant, healthy, cancer-free life.

Monday, September 26, 2011

Foods To Increase The Sexy In You

Who would of thought that eating healthy could save your marriage? Let me explain. We already know that eating healthy can help you to feel better but it can also help to increase your sexual hormones the natural way. Healthy has become the new sexy and now you can take full advantage of eating right for your energy and your libido. Another great reason to get yourself healthy. Below are just a few super foods to do the trick.

Maca
This Andean root is the first food that comes to mind when I think of sexual health and stamina. Just me? It’s been commonly used in Peru since the times of the Inca to increase strength, energy and libido. Modern foodies consider it a superfood, and with good reason. Maca is excellent for balancing hormones and makes a tasty addition to deserts and smoothies.

Chocolate
Always a woman’s favorite. Real dark chocolate (we’re not talking See’s Candies here!) with a high cacao content contains natural stimulants and wellbeing chemicals, plus plenty of magnesium which is good for the heart and women’s libido. A healthy heart means better circulation, and that means better sex drive. Melt it, pour it, lick it…

Chiles
You can’t travel in Latin American without hearing a hot and spicy joke about the size of a man’s chile. And if you’re a fan of picante foods, you know how they can make you a bit sweaty and excitable. Blame it on the capsaicin, the substance in hot peppers which releases endorphins, stimulates nerve endings and increases heart rate.

Cardamom

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This deliciously exotic little spice has a reputation in its home country of India for being an aphrodisiac. I just think it’s got a wonderful, sensual taste. But there may be some science behind it too: cardamom is high in cineole, which stimulates the nervous system.

Ginger
The spicy taste of hot, fresh ginger tea will heat your body up, make your heart race and increase the heat. What more do you need to get it going?

Pumpkin Seeds
High in zinc, which is needed for testosterone production, pumpkin seeds are essential for the libido in both men and women. Toast some up, pop in a movie, oh, forget the movie…

Greens
Eat your salads, ladies, dark leafy greens help your liver metabolize estrogen, and create a good balance of this hormone essential for healthy female sexuality. Sure, they don’t look sexy, but they’ll make you feel amazing.
Of course, there’s no one food that’s going to magically improve your sex life. The key is to avoid cigarettes and excessive alcohol and maintain a state of general health and wellbeing. You can’t expect to sit on your tuckus all day snacking on potato chips and be an excellent lover!

Goji Berries
These superfood berries are considered a potent sexual tonic in Asia. They improve mood and well being and increase testosterone production. They’re tart, complex and intriguing – fittingly.

Pomegranate Juice
A very sensual juice and luscious juice (surely Nigella Lawson would approve), many think that pomegranate’s high antioxidant content keeps free radicals from interfering with circulation. Which would have a positive effect on erectile dysfunction.

Almonds
Best when eaten raw, almonds are high in libido-boosting vitamin E. A very sensible sex-boosting insurance policy. Eat daily.

Hemp
Whether you prefer the seed, the milk, or the oil, hemp is high in the Essential Fatty Acids needed to help balance hormones for a better libido. Whip up a hemp milk latte and cozy up to your sweetie for some kisses to get things going.

Wild Salmon
Another great source of Essential Fatty Acids. Try it cold with creme fraiche, crackers, wine and a little hand-feeding.

Monday, September 19, 2011

Turn The Negative Talk To A Positive You

In a recent study published in the journal Psychology of Women Quarterly, 93 percent of college-age women admitted they fall into the fat-talk trap — picking apart their own body flaws among friends, possibly to elicit those “no, you look great!” responses.
But bashing their belly bloat isn’t the only harmful thing that women routinely say aloud. From “I’m soooo stressed out” to “Yikes, I’m sorry about that,” many seemingly harmless everyday phrases are actually more loaded than you think — and they have the power to whittle down your self-confidence and raise your levels of anxiety and depression, says Shoshana Bennett, PhD, a Sonoma, Calif-based psychologist.
Chances are you may not even realize you’re making such statements, or that they’re self-deprecating, Dr. Bennett says. “You should talk to yourself as you would to a very close friend. Most of us wouldn’t dream of uttering to someone we adore the little putdowns we say to ourselves.”
Everyday Health asked experts to share the very worst kinds of things women say — and how to spin that toxic vocab into positive thinking.
1. “Look at my arm jiggle.”
The situation: Over a glass of pinot with your BFFs, girl talk suddenly turns into a competition of who hates their body more.
Why it’s unhealthy: Pointing out and focusing on the alleged jiggle, whether to friends or yourself, is harmful to your body image and self-esteem. Even if your intent is to seek an image-boosting compliment, it can backfire, prompting you to agonize even more over your body flaws and making you feel worse.
Next time, say: “Did I tell you about the cool project I’m managing at work?” or “I love your new haircut!” The point here is to spend time with your friends celebrating each other’s successes instead of commiserating over flaws.
2. “You always…” or “You never…”
The situation: Your husband leaves his dirty dinner dish in the sink. Again. And again.
Why it’s unhealthy: These unproductive taunts have the potential to snowball out of control, so you suddenly find yourself fighting and screaming about big issues like money or parenting instead of the pile of plates, explains Marianne Gillow, PhD, a psychiatrist in private practice in New York City.
Next time, say: “I have a problem with…” Describe the bothersome behavior in a precise way, which allows you to get to the nuance of the fight, and settle it quickly. “If you’re going to fight with a loved one, it’s best to keep it as specific as possible,” Gillow says.
3. “I’m such a pig.”
The situation: You feel guilty about inhaling an entire bag of pretzel M&Ms, so you confess to your co-worker about your diet slip-up.
Why it’s unhealthy: This self-judgmental jab picks apart your self-esteem, making you more likely to binge further, creating a vicious cycle. In many cases, you’re actually saying it in hopes of getting reassurance from your friends that you are not, in fact, a pig, which is equally as dangerous. “If you’re depending on someone else to tell you how to feel, you’re not taking responsibility for your own confidence and happiness,” says Bennett.
Next time, say: “That was so yummy.” Simply enjoy the indulgence and vow to eat something healthy at your next meal or snack. Or, if you’re eating to the point of discomfort, be aware of your actions. “Make a mental note so you can choose differently next time,” says Bennett. If you turned to the vending machine after a particularly stressful meeting, brainstorm a smarter solution for next time, like venting to your office best friend or taking a mind-clearing walk.
4. “I’m soooo sorry.”
The situation: You brush up against someone in the elevator. Or ask a question in a big meeting. Or fumble around in your wallet and take too long to pay the cashier at the coffee shop.
Why it’s unhealthy: “Over-apologizing for minor, unnecessary things can do a number on your self-worth because you’re basically saying, ‘I’m not important,’” Bennett says.
Next time, say: Nothing at all. Bite your tongue and reserve those earnest apologies for acts that truly deserve them.
5. “Ugh, I’m beyond stressed.”
The situation: You stare at the 72 unread emails in your inbox or your three-page-and-growing to-do list and throw up your hands in despair.
Why it’s unhealthy: With four small words, you imply incompetence. “A lot of times we speak in terms of ‘all or nothing,’ and those statements lead nowhere but down,” says Bennett. Take a step back and have another look at the situation. You’ll probably realize that you’re not falling apart, but you could just use some help prioritizing or delegating. You’re only human, and you can pretty much only do one thing at a time.
Next time, say: “I’m feeling challenged right now.” This puts you in a solution-seeking mindset and you can figure out what to do to move forward.
6. “I can’t afford this.”
The situation: You ogle a gorgeous pair of strappy sandals in your favorite department store (and put them right back down after seeing the price tag). Or you go into sticker shock when the travel agent tallies the cost of the Caribbean cruise you were thinking of booking for your anniversary.
Why it’s unhealthy: When you use the word “can’t,” you’re acting as if you’re not in control of your own situation, and so you limit your possibilities. “Most likely, with some creativity, you could find a way to buy those shoes or take that trip,” says Bennett.
Next time, say: “I choose not to spend money on that right now.” This empowers you with the option of spending money later and brainstorming about how to budget for it.

The bottom line is to love you more because without the positive effects of your own support will surely get in the way of your life being successful. Think positive at all times so the negative will no longer have a place in your life. A healthy mind is a healthy body!